Monday, April 22, 2013

Do not try to help others if they are not in a need

Hi. This is very important lesson that i have learnt in my life. We might think helping others will make us happy. But the thing is the situation in which we help others matter. By offering something to someone when he/she is not in need, they will not feel happy but they might actually think of you in a wrong way. So better don't offer anything unless the other person is in need. Hope we practice this in our lives. 

Sunday, April 21, 2013

How to deal with love break ups

Hello everyone. Love is the most needed one for all the living beings. Everybody go after that. Nothing stands before that. Money, pride, ego etc becomes mediocre before love. What should we do if we are in a situation of losing our loved ones. It will be extremely painful experience. I have undergone that. I loved a girl for almost 2 years. I still love her. But i know that she is not going to be in my life again. Love is the most motivating factor for any human being. I achieved goals that i thought impossible earlier. All because i wanted to be in a better position to make her happy. Call it my luck or my hard work. I did it for her. All those 2 years every breath and moment i lived for her. But one day i came to know that she got engaged. i called her and expressed by feelings for her. But she is not even interested to talk with me. She hang the phone saying some reasons. That day i cried like a child. I never had such a depression after a long time. The most painful thing is she was not willing to hear what i wanted to say her. After all she says am a very good friend of her. It was very painful. I never wanted to hurt her. I would never do things which she doesn't like. Last worlds i said her are "I wont talk to you about this again. Don't mistake me."  She never called me nor did i. I wish her to be happy wherever she is. After that i felt my life empty. Now i have nothing to go after. All i have is to be for the people who relies on me. I decided not to love any girl again. I wanted to marry someone my parents would find me. Love my better-half the same way i did her. And losing love is the most disappointing thing. I lost focus and couldn't concentrate on anything. But this is not the end of life. Whatever happens life has to move on. I decided to live a good life. Achieve lot more before my time comes. Be happy. Enjoy life.   

How important is doing regular exercise

Hello everyone. Everyone at some point of time in life will get a question "how should we live our life?" Life is  a journey. That journey will be happy only if your vehicle is in good condition. There are lot more analogy. The comfort of the journey comes from the sophistication of the vehicle. The vehicle here i mean is our body. nobody will help you unless you yourself is willing to help you. Daily exercise  is as important as having food. Exercise builds your body. A body in good shape enhances your personality. It makes you feel confident. It also attracts others towards you. It will help you to make that first impression. Regular exercise will make your body flexible so that you can have your mind free from age related problems. A good diet coupled with the regular exercise will enhance the quality of your life. Make this a habit. After this all you have is to enjoy your life. Make good decisions and win in the life. At the end you wont have any regrets. Others might discourage you by saying like "what are you trying to achieve by being fit ? enjoy life" But they are the real fools. After some part of time they cannot enjoy anything but only live life with pain and regrets. Always try to be self reliant. Make income from multiple sources. Cultivate good thoughts. Stay away from pain and sadness.  That is the way to live life. If you want any counselling do rely to this post. Enjoy your life to the fullest.

Monday, April 15, 2013

Earning Extra money

Like i always wished i got a job in a good company. As days pass by i came to know that today's world is not so kind to us. Money is of prime importance. Of course money is not everything but it surely makes your life a good one. So earning money is very important. Soon i realized that income from a single source is always a risky one. Also our professional income comes until we retire. So making multiple sources of income is a must. Knowledge and time can be converted to money. I tried many ways. Some of which i truly found to have the potential are

1. Stocks

I would say this is very easy and most established source to make money. Only thing you have to take care is a) Invest only the money you can afford to lose. b) Invest on stocks after making lot of fundamental studies. c) Do not succumb to the over confidence or over expectations.

2. Pay to Click

I would say this won't generate a considerable amount of money but yes they do a little bit of it. Most trusted    sites that i would recommend is clixsense

Let me try other sources available. Please let me know if you have found any reliable source.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Visit to Chilukur Balaji Temple

God - Does he really exist ? No one can answer this question because no one will be able to prove his existence nor his absence. During my college days our family and my aunt family visited hyderabad because our relatives were there at that time. Actually we toured. We saw many places that time. One of them is Chilukur Balaji Temple. The temple has a very long history of 500 years. Everyone believe that balaji swami there would grant all our wishes without fail. As a tradition people come back and make 108 pradhakshanas as token of gratitude. So i made a wish that i should get placed in a very good company in our college. After 2 years i got placed in Wipro VLSI and Infosys. After lot of thinking i opted to join Wipro. I did. I got posted in Cochin. I spent 2 years there. That was not a great job but i spent one of my memorable days in my life in cochin. I almost forgot Chilukur balaji. I later transfered to bangalore. Within 3 months i have to again change my location to hyderabad. After 7 months in hyderabad one day my mother recalled about Chilukur balaji. I thought at that moment as if i came to hyderabad just to repay him my debt. Today i went to the temple and made 108 pradhakshanas. This time i made little more ambitious wish. Let me wait if that too happens. :-)